CHAPTER 1

1. Clifford Notarius and Howard Markman, We Can Work It Out: Making Sense of Marital Conflict (New York: G.P. Putnam’s Sons, 1993), 20–22, 37–38.

2. Dean Ornish, Love and Survival: The Healing Power of Intimacy (New York: HarperCollins Publishers, 1998), 63.

3. Ornish, Love and Survival: The Healing Power of Intimacy, 54–56.

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