Your Self-Sabotage Survival Guide

8Aptitude

Think before you speak. Read before you think.

—Fran Lebowitz

Are you curious? Answer the following questions “true” or “false”:

1. Every day I wake up and wonder what new adventure might await.

2. I marvel at the vast differences in people and want to learn what makes them tick.

3. I try to learn one new word each day just because it’s fun.

4. When I take in the news of the day, I move beyond my TV or newspaper and do more background reading on something I read or hear that intrigues me.

5. I engage at least one person a day in conversation that isn’t centered on my needs.

If you answered any of the above questions “false,” it’s time to get your curiosity back in check! Welcome to Aptitude.

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