Your Self-Sabotage Survival Guide

2Get Over Yourself

Your beliefs become your thoughts,Your thoughts become your words,Your words become your actions,Your actions become your habits,Your habits become your values,Your values become your destiny.

—Oscar Wilde

Self-sabotage is universal but it’s not terminal. It’s fixable, but resolving it is a process. If you’re willing to put in the work, you’ll be able to reverse it and start living the life you want to live—a life that continues to fuel and energize you, not one that drains, exhausts, and demoralizes you. And you might have some fun along the way.

I’ve sabotaged myself in my career—we all have. But once I allowed myself to see the issues, I was able to tackle the issues. Once I was able to see myself, I was able to get over ...