Irritation Threshold

Relationships are frequently endangered because one of the individuals has an irritating habit or mannerism that bothers the other. Here are some common ones:

  • Harsh or loud voice

  • Irritating laugh

  • Overbearing manner

  • Constant name dropping

  • Constant talk about money

  • Constant reference to sex

  • Telling dirty or unfunny stories

  • Overuse of certain words or expressions

  • Constant discussion of personal problems

  • Constant bragging about their successes off the job or the successes of their children

  • Having an opinion on everything

  • Dominating conversations, especially in meetings

Whether or not a habit or mannerism becomes an irritant depends upon the threshold or tolerance level of the second party. If one party has a high enough threshold, he (or ...

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