RULE TO BREAK

“Don’t allow people to make you feel bad”

Don’t you hate it when people patronize you, or moan at you, or emotionally blackmail you? In fact, lots of people do even smaller things that really wind you up – they mumble, or leave doors open, or tap their feet incessantly, or hum out of tune when you’re trying to concentrate, or always walk out of the room in the middle of a sent …

Sorry. I’m back now.* Where was I? Ah yes, people who leave you feeling frustrated, irritated, anxious, depressed, stressed, or other-wise not as you’d like to feel. You really shouldn’t let them do it. Why not have a word and get them to change their behaviour, or if necessary aspects of their personality?

I’ll tell you why not. Because it won’t work, ...

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