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The Rules of Love, 3rd Edition by Richard Templar

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RULE 38

Never stop trying to be attractive

Do you still fancy your partner? I do hope so. And I hope they still fancy you. After all, there’s no reason why they shouldn’t, is there? Or is there?

I presume you want your partner still to be as well groomed and attractive as when you first met them, and that’s understandable. OK, they might be a bit older, but that can add to their appeal. And if you want them to make the effort for you, you need to do the same thing for them. I’m talking not only about looks, but also about your behaviour and the way you talk to them. The softness of your voice and all those little endearments. These things are all part of our attractiveness, and it’s not fair on your partner if you switch them all off after a ...

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