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9 Sometimes When You Lose,You Win
It can be a great feeling to dominate in competition. Winning decisively so that it is clear just how good we are, whether in tennis, bridge, or in our career, can seem pretty wonderful. Sometimes the old saying captures how we feel, “winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.”
There are also times when we feel bad for the competition, especially if it is a child, a friend, or a well-liked relative. At one time or another most of us have experienced the wish, and even taken the actions, to lose on purpose. Consequently, we can end up feeling like a winner because of the joy the victory brings to our opponent, especially if it is a child. After all, would you really want to ...
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