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Not long ago as I was exploring the “Self-Help” section of a well-known local bookstore, I noticed a young woman who seemed more than a bit perplexed. Catching my glance, she smiled and said: “I know that one of these books could change my life. I just don't know which one it is.”

I wasn't sure what to say, so I smiled back, buying a bit of time to think through her predicament. I then said, with the half-baked logic of an amateur sage, “You know, we're all in that situation. Only you're smart enough to realize it.” A response that seems more thoughtful in retrospect than it did at the time.

“Thanks,” she replied. “I don't feel quite so foolish ...

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