Love Lies and Why We Believe Them
To love, be lovable.
PROPOSITIONS ABOUT LOVE
1. You have to learn to love others before you can love yourself.
2. True love is not emotional; it’s volitional.
3. Enduring love is conditional, not unconditional.
4. Healthy love is a matter of being the right partner, not finding the right person.
5. Lasting love is based on mutual delusion.
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