Who’s at Fault?

Michael, a leader with international responsibility for a major professional services firm, is incredibly smart, perceptive, and a fast learner. Because he is so talented, he is asked to tackle major accounts, and he enjoys the challenge of making deals. He told me that he can’t remember ever losing a deal that he made a proposal on. But if he is so competent, why did he ask me to coach him? It turns out that he has perfectionist tendencies, and when working with others, he has low tolerance for their mistakes and errors. Contributing to Michael’s angst were two significant external emotional events.

One of his colleagues, a close friend, recently died of cancer. The friend was a workaholic and, based on the amount of time he ...

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