23. Build Trust

Rapport can probably be summed up with one word: trust. In today's more complex, changing, chaotic world, rapport results from more trust, not less. We offer the distinction of being a natural born leader to those who skillfully build trust with every action they take and with every word they speak every day.

Use every interaction as a "moment of trust." Do what you say you will do. Consistency creates trust. Make a promise and keep it. Don't make promises you cannot keep. Take in a confidence and vow to absolutely never betray it. Do not gossip. Accept responsibility for your actions and results. Do not make excuses. Trust grows when people "own up" and accept accountability for their actions. Assess your communications and make ...

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