RULE 58

Accept the differences, embrace what you have in common

‘Sugar and spice and all things nice . . . slugs and snails and puppy dogs’ tails’ – isn’t that how the rhyme goes? So which are you? The slugs and snails or the sugar and spice? Chances are, you’re a bit of both. Look, it’s true that men and women have differences. We would be fools if we didn’t accept and recognize that. But we’re not so different that we are separate species – or from separate planets, as some would have us believe. We actually have more in common than we have differences. If we embrace those things we have in common and accept what is different, we might get on a whole lot better instead of treating each other as if we were separate species. A same-sex relationship ...

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