CHAPTER 24
Compromise
Martial artists ultimately strive for harmony. Sure they train to fight, but paradoxically that gives them a choice not to. They don’t back down from conflict, they seek to resolve it. They look for the common ground, areas of agreement. They compromise.
Most people shy away from conflict. They hate to fight. But opposing attitudes, opinions or approaches don’t have to turn into a wrestling match. Conflict can be positive. But, still, most people avoid it. And they end up feeling frustrated and resentful towards other people. However, be very clear: inaction doesn’t solve disagreements. Conflict needs to be managed before it becomes a destructive force.
A lot can be learnt from the martial arts when it comes to handling ...
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