CHAPTER 11Conclusion

We have worked hard to pack the latest research related to contemporary selling into this book. However, never lose sight of the reality that it is not what you say that matters; what really matters is how you say it.

Earning referrals is all about deploying the right strategy, saying the right things, and then saying those things in the right way. Frankly communicating the right way means using tone, speed, and sincerity. So remember: it’s not only what you say, but how you say it. That’s a crucial distinction.

You should also consider what not to say. You’ve invested a great deal of effort into learning the strategies and phrases in this book. Don’t fall victim to old school statements that people hope will generate referrals. ...

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