The Ability to Leave Your Ego Behind

We all have an ego. For some, the ego can cause paralysis, inhibiting their quest for growth and opportunity. Here is another paradox: Often the person who insists on attention is the one least likely to receive the type or amount of attention desired. An overactive ego does not help win the recognition, admiration, and approval that the egotist seeks. Instead, it has a repelling effect that encourages others to want to limit their association with the egotist. Furthermore, it leads others to question the real value and substance that exist behind all the verbal arm-waving.

An oversized ego can also interfere with recognizing others for their contributions. And it can bias decisions being made, favoring ...

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