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Life Reimagined by Richard J. Leider

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Chapter 4Reflect––What’s Real for You?

If you talk with people in the latter part of their lives and ask them to look back on how they’ve lived, you’ll hear a consistent refrain: “If I were to live my life over, I’d be more reflective.” Dig a little deeper, and they usually add, “Happiness is a choice, not a result of how life treats you.”

What they’re really saying is, reflection is all about choice.

What is reflection?

First, let’s dispel some misconceptions. Start with what it isn’t—and what it doesn’t require you to do.

Reflection doesn’t require you to go off to a monastery. You don’t have to light candles and learn to sit in the lotus position. Soothing music isn’t necessary; you don’t have to practice chanting or learn a mantra. (To be ...

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