Index

Accountability, lack of, 112, 113 (figure)

Accountability transformation, 180, 186–189

Accountability transformation system, 171

Anatomy of Peace, The (Arbinger Inst.), 184, 185, 190, 202

Applicant screening, 179, 181–182

Attitudes, bad, 112, 113 (figure)

Backbiting, 112, 113 (figure)

Behavior

being in vs. out of the box as deeper than, 46–48, 142

soft vs. hard, 46–48

two ways to perform any, 36, 46–47, 64, 103, 142

vs. way of seeing others, 32–41, 46

Being. See Seeing others, two ways of; Ways of being

Blame

as characteristic of self-betrayal, 79–82

and communication in the box, 136–137

and coping with others, 135

creates need for others to be blameworthy, 101–102

due to being in the box, 158–160

due to ourselves, not others, 157–158

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