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It is rude to stack your plates, push them away, or hand them to the server at formal dinners. Place your loosely folded napkin, soiled side down and hidden, on the table just as you stand to leave, not before.

General Manners

Stand at attention if the national anthem is played. Be quiet and respectful during grace, if it is said. Use the water glass when toasting the Queen. Do not clink glasses during a toast. Raise your glass, make eye contact with your tablemates, and nod your head slightly. After the toast is completed, take a sip of the liquid to complete the ritual.

The meal officially begins when the host takes the first bite. Wait for all guests to be seated and served before you begin to eat.

Keep the pace of your tablemates as you eat.

Don't talk while someone is speaking from the microphone; it is inconsiderate and can make it difficult for a speaker to concentrate. Regardless of how quiet you think you are whispering, you'll never be quiet enough to avoid irritating those around you who are trying to listen.

Don't go to an event hungry. It will make it easier for you to focus on the people rather than the food. Buffets at business functions are not to be treated the same as all-you-can-eat buffets at restaurants. Take your fair share, but not so much that you look greedy.

Keep your elbows off the table until the dinner plates have been removed.

Eat quietly. Avoid smacking sounds or hitting your teeth with your silverware. The irritation of sharing a meal with a person ...