If the table settings have been started incorrectly and you are forced to use the wrong bread plate and drink glasses, be considerate by not drawing attention to the situation. This could embarrass the person who started using the settings incorrectly. You can, however, simply move the available bread plate to the proper side and once you've taken a sip from your glass, you can place it on the right side, which happens to be on the right side.
Napkins
Once seated, immediately place your napkin on your lap. Do not tuck it into your shirt to use it as a bib. To avoid splashing on your clothes, eat carefully and at a comfortable pace.
When you place the napkin on your lap, fold the furthest few inches of the napkin over on itself. This way, you can use that inside edge of the napkin to dab your lips. When you place it back on your lap, fold the soiled end back over on itself so you will protect your clothing and hide the mess.
Please do not lick your fingers; that's why you have a napkin. Never use your napkin as a tissue to blow your nose at the table.
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