Chapter 5Essential Skills: Listening and Note-Taking

Why ask the question if you don’t listen to the answer?

—Maryann Karinch

In 1978, Maryann and her boyfriend began a three-week backpacking trip through Mexico. She had no knowledge of Spanish when they arrived, although the boyfriend was fluent. He tried to teach her a few words and phrases, and then urged her to put them to the test. She went up to someone on a street corner and asked, “¿Qué hora es?” The man looked at his watch and told her what time it was. Maryann went back to her boy-friend and excitedly asked, “How did I do?”

“I don’t know yet,” he said. “What time is it?”

“Huh?” She was so excited about asking the question that she didn’t listen to the answer.

In a related blunder, I ...

Get Find Out Anything From Anyone, Anytime now with the O’Reilly learning platform.

O’Reilly members experience books, live events, courses curated by job role, and more from O’Reilly and nearly 200 top publishers.