TIP 9

IT’S ALL GOOD, EVEN THE BAD STUFF

       I don’t have a warm personal enemy left. They’ve all died off. I miss them terribly because they helped define me.

CLARE BOOTHE LUCE

       What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy and strength, if faced with an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.

HENRY MILLER

It is easier to have a positive attitude if you realize that everything is good, even the bad stuff. In order to fully appreciate the good things in life, we almost have to experience their opposites. Take happiness, for example. If you were never sad, would happiness be so rich? You couldn’t choose goodness, if it weren’t for evil. As a colleague of mine ...

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