TIP 78

ACCEPT GRACIOUSLY

       Let us open up our natures, throw wide the doors of our hearts and let in the sunshine of good will and kindness.

O. S. MARDEN

Most people don’t have any problem giving gifts or compliments, but for some reason, we find it difficult to accept them. Graciously accepting is one secret to attracting more of what you want. It is not only impolite but also unattractive to reject a gift or compliment by saying things like, “You shouldn’t have,” “It was really nothing,” “Oh, this old thing?” or, “I just bought it on sale.” There is no need for you to do anything or make any explanation. Simply say, “Thank you!” and smile. Any other comment is a subtle way of telling the person that she doesn’t know what she’s talking ...

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