Introduction

Imagine this . . . you get everything you want in life.

Sounds good doesn’t it? What does it mean?

Well, imagine that you’re perfectly happy to ask for what you want. It wouldn’t occur to you not to. It is second nature to you. You set your own priorities and stick to them. You decide what you do with your own money, time and energy. And if anyone challenges you, you handle their questions with confidence and ease.

What’s more, if life hurls a curve ball your way you face those challenges and risks knowing that you feel utterly capable of handling them and you take risks to find solutions.

You’re also happy asking for what you need without apologising for it. You have the choice as to whether you speak up or not in response to situations. ...

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