96. LISTEN UP for Better Communication

The secret of being a great communicator is to listen a whole lot more than you speak. Whether you are communicating with customers, coworkers, or other people, be the best listener you can be.

  • L-earn.

    • View every listening experience as an opportunity to learn something.

  • I-dentify.

    • Look for ways to identify with what you are hearing.

  • S-ay nothing.

    • Keep quiet and listen.

  • T-une in.

    • Give your full and undivided attention to the speaker.

  • E-mpathize.

    • Put yourself in the speaker’s shoes, and show understanding and empathy.

  • N-o judging.

    • Remain neutral while you are listening to the message.

  • U-tilize the information you received to prepare your response.

  • P-ause before you answer. Always think before you speak.

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