29. Charge Ahead with Charger Words

Zapper words rob us of our strength and energy, while charger words lift us up, energize us, ignite a fire in us, build confidence, and invigorate our self-esteem. Erase all zappers, and replace them with the following energizers.

Performance Prompts

Try to say one, some, or all of these everyday:

  • Yes.

  • I can.

  • You can.

  • That’s great.

  • Let’s try it.

  • I like it.

  • Sounds good.

  • I agree.

  • Great job.

  • I’m glad you thought of that.

  • I appreciate your effort.

  • I know you can do it.

  • Good for you.

  • I never would have thought of that.

  • I’m happy for you.

More words to use more often:

  • Will you? (rather than You will).

  • You could. (rather than You should.)

  • How can I help?

  • Thank you.

  • I’m sorry.

  • I made a mistake.

  • What can I do to correct this?

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