APPENDIX A

Negotiating Styles

Table A-1 summarizes the three negotiating styles covered in Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher, William L. Ury, and Bruce Patton (Penguin Books, 1991).

Table A-1. Summary of Three Negotiating Styles

Soft

Hard

Principled

Participants are friends.

Participants are adversaries.

Participants are problem-solvers.

The goal is agreement.

The goal is victory.

The goal is a wise outcome reached efficiently and amicably.

Make concessions to cultivate the relationship.

Demand concessions as a condition of the relationship.

Separate the people from the problem.

Be soft on the people and the problem.

Be hard on the problem and the people.

Be soft on the people but ...

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