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Tackle the Intimidator
If you must win at all costs at even the first sign of disagreement, will resort to making personal attacks, slinging mud, and calling people out in front of others, then you’ve stopped at the right place.
The first thing you need to know is that people are avoiding you. They fear you, so you’re not getting honest answers, good information, or acceptance. And that makes you ineffective in the workplace and other parts of your life.
But we want to help. Similar to the two other deadly approaches, you’re running on fear. We believe you can change. Change starts with knowing that your approach is not okay; it’s the deadliest of all when it comes to relationships—period! In fact, you will have the most work to do, but could ...
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