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Don’t Be Condescending
Condescending behaviors are those that result from a patronizing, superior attitude. Patronizing behaviors are those that seem polite and positive on the surface, but are clearly intended to express someone’s superiority over you. He expresses ideas or responses that clearly suggest that he is better then you are, or more knowledgeable, or—well, want some examples? Here you go:
Assignment
Think about some of the times people have been condescending to you. Did you appreciate it? What did you think about the person who did it to you?
“Thanks for your thoughts. We are all refreshed by your unique point of view.”
“That’s an excellent idea, but I don’t know what it has to do with what we are talking about.”
“Let me see ...
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