151 Quick Ideas to Improve Your People Skills

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Have Reasonable Expectations of Yourself

Know thyself. A key to being socially intelligent is being self aware. Do you have a reasonable understanding of yourself? Do you know what sets you off? Do you know what calms you down? Do you know your interpersonal strengths and weaknesses?

Assignment

Referring to your list (Idea 6), jot down what expectations you have for moving each relationship forward. Are your expectations of yourself realistic?

As you attempt to take relationships to new places, make sure you have reasonable expectations of yourself. For example, if you struggle with feelings of inferiority, it might not be a good idea to try charming the office bully at this point in your life.

You do want to stretch yourself in moving relationships ...