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how we respond to circumstances and even our own thoughts and feelings.

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Cover of Teaching That Changes Lives

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She is saying that I can't control what thoughts come up in my mind, but I can choose how I will react, and that I can choose to not judge what comes up, as that act of judging sets things off in a bad/unproductive/ direction.