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When the choice is between you or me, look for a way to explore us, the relationship itself.

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Cover of Humble Inquiry

Note

Even after the short break, I would find it easy to dwell on "an interruption just occurred". But this is still a selfish position because it is not considering the other person's needs in the right frame or the relationship.