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Judger is not the problem; it’s how we relate to Judger that makes all the difference


Cover of Change Your Questions, Change Your Life, 3rd Edition


This reminds me of "the work:" our thoughts are not the problem; it is our relationship to our thoughts that is the problem. Stated another way: none of our beliefs or constructs are literally true, yet we treat all of them as objectively real on a regular basis. All of this is fiction; a useful, hopefully, fiction, but a fiction nonetheless.