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Cover of Change Your Questions, Change Your Life, 3rd Edition

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question: how can I live more from a win-win perspective? first answer: I don't know, but I can have this intention. question: how can my life become win-win? I can start by not seeing my successes as coming at others expense or as others'successes as coming at my expense.