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Whose fault is it?

What’s wrong with me?

Why am I such a failure?

Why can’t I ever do anything right?

Why is everybody so stupid and frustrating?


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Wow, I feel horrible as I ask these questions. I could suggest that this is almost like asking my subconscious mind to do a Google search for the answers to these questions, and to make up answers if none are immediately there. I can see how these questions focus the mind on things that are not helpful at all! I felt quite uncomfortable after reading these questions. New question: how can I apply this in my life? (In a training i could tell participants that I would like them to ask themselves to ask themselves "how can I apply this in my life?"